13 thoughts on “Victim impact statement

  1. Interesting read and found some very substantiated trends in my own situation.
    Fact: This November my son will be 17. I last had contact with him on the 10th of December 1999. I sort the legal avenue until I became financially and mentally exhausted. His Mother succeeded in her wishes to sever the relationship between Father and son as a means of a final act of abuse and defiance to the separation.
    Every attempt to retain any form of contact has been maliciously vandalized.
    I have had no alternative other then to move on with my life although barely a day goes by of which I do not think of him.
    I had hoped the Family Law would of matured enough by this day and age to recognize and place counter measures to this behavior for what it is – Parental Alienation, the ultimate weapon of domestic abuse.
    Unfortunately despite the extensive research and reporting of this issue, the Family Court has failed to manifest this tort of law. The tort however does not result in legal liability but that of a disastrous social liability.

    • FAMILY LAW ACT 1975 – SECT 4AB

      FAMILY LAW ACT 1975 – SECT 4AB

      Definition of family violence etc.

      (1) For the purposes of this Act, family violence means violent, threatening or other behaviour by a person that coerces or controls a member of the person’s family (the family member ), or causes the family member to be fearful.

      (i) preventing the family member from making or keeping connections with his or her family, friends or culture; or

      (j) unlawfully depriving the family member, or any member of the family member‘s family, of his or her liberty.

      http://fathersaustralia.com/study-law-courses-online-australia/family-law-act-1975-sect-4ab/

      “Destroy the family, you destroy the country.” Vladimir Ilyich Lenin Who in their right mind would in a constitutional monarchy create a secret star camber court then make our sworn enemies, Marxist feminist chief justice, that has clear intentions breaking honest hard working real people, the back bone of our society. We have got to target these traffickers and criminals who are managing promoting and selling this human trade, trafficking in human suffering, we are determined to put an end to this vile trade, trade in human life, trade in human death.
      We have got to put the blame squarely at the appalling human traffickers, we now need to do everything we can using a comprehensive approach.
      These traffickers are utterly ruthless, they just want the cash, once they have the cash the deal is done.
      Every Australian Dad needs to join a political party today and lobby for justice. http://fathersaustralia.com/

      Quotes by Vladimir Lenin
      When one makes a Revolution, one cannot mark time; one must always go forward — or go back. He who now talks about the freedom of the press goes backward, and halts our headlong course towards Socialism.
      Literature must become party literature. Down with unpartisan litterateurs! Down with the superman of literature! Literature must become a part of the general cause of the proletariat.
      http://www.austlii.edu.au/au/legis/cth/consol_act/fla1975114/s121.html

      The real issue is no moral compass especially from our civil service employee’s, illegitimate authority, is a clear indicator of APD [sociopaths and psychopaths].
      1% of the population have Antisocial Personality Disorder APD [ref DSM5] that is 230,000 psychopaths in Australia alone. Worldwide 70,000,000.
      APD [psychopaths] is why we are always at war, they are genetically flawed, disposing them to be criminally and morally insane.
      So where are they all, Terrorist States, ISIS, socialist states, civil services? Seems psychopaths gravitate to positions of power it is their nature.
      Australia is experiencing a massive constitutional crisis, 21 Billion PA wasted on fraudulent socialist services corruption in family court alone, 21 deaths per week by way of suicide, where is the public outcry here?,
      Our courts and civil services are awash with fraud and political corruption, especially here in Queensland.
      I Have been in family court for 5 years on proven via confession of false allegations of DV, against fraudulent socialist services corruption by Legal Aid Queensland they still won’t let my 5yo son see me, despite court orders, anyone like to try explaining that?
      Please stop funding legal aid Queensland socialist corruption and their feminists agenda.
      Please ask the [our] government.
      1. Do they employ psychopaths in civil services?
      2. How many psychopaths are employed in or civil services?
      3. Why are they employing psychopaths in civil services?
      4. Have they warned the people they are employing psychopaths in civil services?
      http://fathersaustralia.com/dsm-5/

      Steve

  2. Am a single father (in Canada) with sole custody of a young child. My child was criminally abducted to another country by the mother and eventually the child was located, rescued and returned home by myself. It seems to me that the searching parents (of missing or abducted children) who are more likely to find and return their children are those who take what i would call immediate and decisive action, (including sometimes moving to the country where the child has been taken to and searching full-time until the child is rescued). Examples of parents who have done this are Damien Gayle (London, England), Sean Felton (England), Henry da Massa (Manchester, England), Stephen Watkins (Ontario, Canada), Joe Chisholm who searched for 18 1/2 years (Toronto, Ontario, Canada) and Australia’s Ken Thompson. The family law systems (and the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction) around the world are at best blunt instruments (to resolve a conflict between parents) or inadequate and often destructive (to a child’s well-being and life). There are small, secretive organizations which will help a parent (only with proven legal custody) locate and rescue an abducted child, some for free (charities).

    The following ideas are my opinions, based on experience and research (of other successful searching parents). You must research the law in the country where the child has been taken to and how deeply rooted corruption is in that country before planning any such action. You should make the other parent aware that you will never give up searching for your child, no matter how many years it may take and that you are willing to sacrifice your own life to protect and rescue your child. You must be willing to die, to sacrifice your own life, if necessary, to get your child back home alive. Cut off every source of income to the abusive parent. Enlist the aid of every person you can find who will help you in the country where the child is being held. Martin Luther King, Jr. once said that you don’t have to see all the stairs to take the first step and this may be good advice. You may have to find a way to move to the country where the child is, for however long it may take, to establish a parental relationship with the child and to, sooner or later, find and rescue the child. Even the countries which seem to be the most dangerous (due to violence and corruption usually) can be livable places if you understand how things work in reality and can hide your fear. Basically, you have to find a way to make possible what seems impossible and take the necessary action.

    Whatever you do or do not do (to find and rescue your daughter), you must assume your daughter will, some day, some year, learn about what you did or did not do to rescue her. Even if your actions don’t result in the rescue of your child, she will know you tried and took action well beyond what anyone could have expected of you. If you do get her back, she will know that your love for her is boundless. Actions speak louder than words, always.

    • The comments above are in response to the comments posted by Wayne Kilowsky (on June 12, 2015). In Canada a parent has the responsibility and the right to remove his child from the other parent’s care if the person (or somebody associated with the abusive parent) is actually or is suspected of abusing (or seriously neglecting) the child, even if removing the child from that person’s care would otherwise be contrary to a court order. An example would be a court order that you must return the child to the other parent (after a visit) by a certain day of the week and at a certain time but when you try to do so the other person is found to be drunk or otherwise intoxicated or unconscious, which would mean you would be responsible for taking the child into your care and control (even though a court order states otherwise).

  3. My now 10yr old half thai daughter is being prostituted regularly for 3yrs by ex wife thai mother under a deal with DCP here but organised unbeknown to me back in thai before we even met to have babies to aust or canadian men and groom them then separate and pimp them or supply pedophile parties ect but has had 2 suicide attemps since age 7 and theres nothing I can do after over 3yrs family court and 140k+ and theres 2 others same age one male the other female and of lao desent in same position ? but with no one at all to help them cept me any help muchley appreciated wayne

    • The members of Luke’s Army are here for support and to use the group as a healthy way of expressing emotion and frustration at a failing system. Many victims of child protection have been abused by the psychological and medical professionals they were referred to by child protection.

      This group is designed to be a safe place where people can safely discuss their troubles, not a place for vindictive child protection staff to come looking for ammunition to use against already devastated and victimised parents..

      We also welcome foster carers, foster children, child protection workers current and previous, even politicians and media are welcome as is the general public who wish to see an end to the tyranny which portrays itself as child protection. https://www.facebook.com/groups/LukesArmy/?fref=ts

    • Well that’s it for family court and still in shock but not from loosing but how blatently corrupt it is and how many people know it is and/or are involved and must say I feel ashamed and betrayed by Australia for turning the other cheek on the most vile piece of shit pedo judges and their supporters and the horror the kids have got to through getting raped daly with again lots of people in the know and nothing done and these are not my people but where are they as Ive been serching for over 2yrs and still not a fucking sniff ? but what is needed is somebody with you that knows abit and never go alone as I did because then they know and team together and use you to “mop the floor” and get away with illeagal stuff that we don’t know about

      wayne

      • The real issue is no moral compass especially from our civil service employee’s, illegitimate authority, is a clear indicator of APD [sociopaths and psychopaths].
        1% of the population have Antisocial Personality Disorder APD [ref DSM5] that is 230,000 psychopaths in Australia alone. Worldwide 70,000,000.
        APD [psychopaths] is why we are always at war, they are genetically flawed, disposing them to be criminally and morally insane.
        So where are they all, Terrorist States, ISIS, socialist states, civil services? Seems psychopaths gravitate to positions of power it is their nature.
        Australia is experiencing a massive constitutional crisis, 21 Billion PA wasted on fraudulent socialist services corruption in family court alone, 21 deaths per week by way of suicide, where is the public outcry here?,
        Our courts and civil services are awash with fraud and political corruption, especially here in Queensland.
        I Have been in family court for 5 years on proven via confession of false allegations of DV, against fraudulent socialist services corruption by Legal Aid Queensland they still won’t let my 5yo son see me, despite court orders, anyone like to try explaining that?
        Please stop funding legal aid Queensland socialist corruption and their feminists agenda.
        Please ask the [our] government.
        1. Do they employ psychopaths in civil services?
        2. How many psychopaths are employed in or civil services?
        3. Why are they employing psychopaths in civil services?
        4. Have they warned the people they are employing psychopaths in civil services?
        http://fathersaustralia.com/dsm-5/

      • Dear Friend, We have got to target these traffickers and criminals who are managing promoting and selling this human trade, trafficking in human suffering, we are determined to put an end to this vile trade, trade in human life, trade in human death.
        We have got to put the blame squarely at the appalling human traffickers, we now need to do everything we can using a comprehensive approach.
        These traffickers are utterly ruthless, they just want the cash, once they have the cash the deal is done.
        Every Australian Dad needs to join a political party today and lobby for justice.
        http://fathersaustralia.com/

  4. I was an international student and met an Australian girl and had a daughter with her. I paid child support and thousands of dollars to my ex-girl friend and to her mother for almost 4 years for my daughter and my partner and her mother ,but we broke up in March this year because she and her mother asks me for money all the time and said if I don not give them money they will not let me see my daughter, she says because I am not an Australian, so I do not have any rights in this Australian and every body will believe what ever she says. She told me that I am not the father of the child because she says she had sex with different guys when she was with me and I have not seen my daughter (which I am sure is mine) for last 7 months. Now I have trust issues, can not concentrate on my work, can’t sleep properly at nights and my health is also effected. I really do not know what to do?

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