Behind 121 FLA The RED PILL, Killer Australian Family Courts, Graft, Killer judges, Child Trafficking, Exploitation and Abuse Industry, Murder Incorporated




“Destroy the family, you destroy the country.” Vladimir Ilyich Lenin

Australia is experiencing a massive constitutional crisis, our courts and civil services are awash with political corruption.

Please stop funding legal aid Queensland socialist corruption and their feminists agenda.

$21,000,000,000 AUD PA 10,000 LAWYERS, BARBARISUM NO RULE OF LAW it is literally the Manson family on $21,000,000,000 Billion Dollar organised crime spree by way of fraud on steroids, lie cheat slander steal kill, in full knowledge, consent and facilitated by the judiciary, 2 to 4 deaths per day.

We have got to target these traffickers and criminals who are managing promoting and selling this human trade, trafficking in human suffering, we are determined to put an end to this vile trade, trade in human life, trade in human death.

We have got to put the blame squarely at the appalling human traffickers, we now need to do everything we can using a comprehensive approach.

These traffickers are utterly ruthless, they just want the cash, once they have the cash the deal is done.

Every Australian Dad needs to join a political party today and lobby for justice.


The real issue this shows no moral compass from our civil service employee’s, that is a clear indicator of APD [sociopaths and psychopaths].

1% of the population have Antisocial Personality Disorder APD [ref DSM5] that is 230,000 psychopaths in Australia alone. Worldwide 70,000,000.

APD [psychopaths] is why we are always at war, they are genetically flawed, disposing them to be criminally and morally insane.

So where are they all, Terrorist States, ISIS, socialist states, civil services? Seems psychopaths gravitate to positions of power it is their nature. Please ask the [our] government

1. Do they employ psychopaths in civil services?

2. How many psychopaths are employed in or civil services?

3. Why are they employing psychopaths in civil services?

4. Have they warned the people they are employing psychopaths in civil services?

Jacobin Club – Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

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If men are to be precluded from offering their sentiments on a matter which may involve the most serious and alarming consequences that can invite the consideration of mankind, reason is of no use to us; the freedom of speech may be taken away, and dumb and silent we may be led, like sheep to the slaughter. George Washington (22 February173214 December1799)

Your Will Be Done

“Deprivation of the Child is Odious” Contact PM Tony Abbott for Children Everywhere.



In secret courts with NO juries, Our Children, our families, our culture, our future under attack from within, organised crime graft profiting from crime and judicial corruption ambush psychological war against Australian Children and Families, with destructive and lethal consequences’.

Antisocial Narcisstic socialist feminist treachery, bigotry and treasons under the Australian constitution we can not receive fair justice from this judiciary, FCA has been overrun by this foreign political violent power sociopathic pac, EMILY’s List is a political action committee (Super PAC) “More women in parliament, on corporate boards and in our courts“.

Feminist antisocial sociopathic pac or any other PAC’s have no place in the ‘Australian Commonwealth’ courts, by way of constitutional separation of power, it is treason, complete disregard for children and law, unlawful oppression and tyranny.

The Magna Carta (Great Charter), 1297 Parliament House, Canberra | Origins of the 1215 Magna Carta

King John exploited and abused the traditional sources of revenue. Desperate for money to wage wars in defence of his estates, John demanded unprecedented amounts in ‘scutage’, or money from his tenants in lieu of providing knights for the king’s service. He was intemperate and at times cruel in his manner of enforcing his rights from his land-holders and from the church, and unjust in his treatment of people at all levels. There was no redress against the absolute power of the king.

Barons who resisted paying the excessive levies had their lands confiscated and members of their families taken as hostages. By 1215 rebel barons outnumbered those loyal to John. They united and marched on London from the north and captured the Tower of London on 17 May 1215.

Feminist antisocial sociopathic pack, are as is Syria’s antisocial sociopathic pac, North Korea’s, Soviet Russia’s, China’s, Nazi antisocial sociopathic pac.

They exploit and abuse children and families with impunity, in their ambitions of power to create a socialist feminist republic, money through children via the courts. “Early Money Is Like Yeast” (i.e., it raises dough), feminism is a MSS KGB fuelled construct.

Women Against Feminism

Let us therefore animate and encourage each other, and show the whole world that a Freeman, contending for liberty on his own ground, is superior to any slavish mercenary on earth. George Washington (22 February 173214 December 1799)


Albert Einstein once said “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results”.



Family courts are designed to ambush people, not deliver justice.

Socialists are the most antisocial dangerous deadly animals on the planet.



The General hopes and trusts that every officer and man will endeavor to live and act as becomes a Christian soldier defending the dearest rights and liberties of his country. George Washington (22 February 173214 December 1799)

Kids do best in the care of their family, feminism money and power, egocentric sociopathic doctrine, profits from slandering their victims, rights for women but not men and boys.

Sociopaths notably neglect kids, is why they promote child care, instead of family care. is not a gender thing, humane means ethically and morally, some are genetically inhuman, evil gene, incapable of true humane behaviour, looks human, sounds human, not human.

It is inhuman, sociopathic doctrine, sociopaths, psychopaths are not human, incapable of true ethic’s and moral, is a different species, know as speciation.

The Positive Impact of Fathers Involvement is ignored for profits, with devastating consequences for our children and there lives.




Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

Albert Einstein


Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

Albert Einstein


Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

Albert Einstein


Political violent politically bigoted Satins Star Chamber Courts, like Saddam Hussein, Bashar al Assad, ALP do not give a crap about you or your kids.

LNP, Mr. Tony Abbott we need to protect our children and families from family court predators.

Stop sociopathic socialist state corruption in FLC and their iron curtain.

Stop graft, exploitation and abuse in the child trafficking industry.

1. Repeal rescind revoke and annul 121. Family Law Act (FLA) their iron curtain secret gag law stopping communication with the Australian public, covering corruption exploitation and abuse.

2. Open the court objective truth, juries on appeals, not subjective bigoted parasitic judiciaries.

3.  Abolish legal aid. Stop funding corrupt illicit sex discrimination. Legal Aid should be nothing more than a self help webpage, not slush funds for politically violent corrupt law firms.

Judges on annual contract and review, based on quality of character or honour, cut their funding and pay.


Family courts are an abomination of treachery sedition and corruption, absolute power corrupts absolutely; John Dalberg-Acton, not in the least children’s interest to subject them to these sociopathic animals.

Humans can, inhuman’s can not self govern, Human the quality of being humane; kindness; benevolence. inhuman lacking human qualities of compassion and mercy; cruel and barbaric, not human in nature or character.

We are facing malignant evil, just doesn’t play by the rules, no ethics or morals.

The corruption of the Australian family courts is so complete and being not only ignored by all levels of government, both the socialist left ALP and the Fascist right LNP are both sociopathic, Narcisstic, exploiting as is sociopathic feminism.

Vote for anyone that doesn’t give preferences to ALP (socialist) or LNP (fascist)

The democratic system we have is out of date, where the swindle is, we surrender our democratic vote to fearless leader A B C or D and funky party A B C or D gives us justice, maybe, not likely, not ever.

It is tyrannical because the parties are based on hierarchy, hierarchies
form pyramid structures; there weakness is the points, all the power is focused
at the top, an unjust structure, where you are ignored.

The only real solution is true and pure democracy, pure democracy forms
spheres, mathematically superior, hyper mathematics, and universal law.

Do you form hierarchies with your friends or spheres?

Direct democracy via technology is the only way we will get true justice …



Whereas it is essential, if man is not to be compelled to have recourse, as a last resort, to rebellion against tyranny and oppression, that human rights should be protected by the rule of law.

Lawful Rebellion – Clause 61 Magna Carta (1215) That all our law comes…

…And we shall procure nothing from any one, either personally or indirectly, whereby any part of these concessions and liberties might be revoked or diminished; and if any such thing has been procured, let it be void and null, and we shall never make use of it ourselves or through someone else.

Australian holocaust there are some 2 to 4 deaths per day directly Family court Australia related, that goes unnoticed, we really need a commission overseeing FCA, begs the question why LNP are funding feminist industries Australia?

We cant build families on Marxist socialist feminism or build a nation, as socialism fascism communism, why are we allowing feminism to overrun or courts, public services and universities.

George Christensen MP  in Parliament has already described and explained feminism is a’ Trojan Horse’ .

“Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world.”
―     Nelson Mandela

You are naïve if you go to the Australian Family Court in good faith, believing you will get “high-quality and timely judgments” from the FCA judiciary, they are openly dysfunctional, antisocial, lie, slander and cheat, threaten and abuse, narcissism.

There really is no rule of law in family court, judges just dictate and lie, open cesspits of cronyism and corruption, there needs to be open jury trials only in family courts, now only criminals get juries, where children need them.

There would be so much less cost and waist if public employee’s were held accountable to we the people. Corruption is just ignored. Not good business not civil society.


The three dogs of family law courts are feminism, socialism and capitalism.

Feminism is egocentric antisocial sociopathic controling and manipulation, its crowning achievement is ABORTION killing babies, an ideal is the sum of its maxims, the axiom of feminism it is an abortion, if a feminist believes in abortion by this premise accept their maxima of self abortion.

There is noting more violent than abortion, is that in the child’s best interest?

The swindle with abortion is the at certain intervals, the ovaries release an ovum, which passes through the fallopian tube into the uterus.

The fertilization of the ovum with the sperm occurs at the ampullary-isthimic junction only.

Once the ovum is released it is not part of the women’s body, and when fertilised with sperm it is a separate human life, that they chose to kill, “pro-choice” to kill.

We are up against a well funded well organised massive group of animals focused on power and money, the very same as facist and socialist ‘PAC’s/.

Most DV and abuse against children is by women, given that DV between men and women is nearly 50/50, = most DV is by women.

This  finding has  been confirmed  across nations and cultures by  pre-eminent violence researcher Murray Straus, whose 2007 paper concluded that dominance by the female.

Stop violence against children

This proves feminism is a false premise, but a multibillion $ industry.

I’m sure the MSS and the KGB are having a good laugh at ASIO CIA MI5 and have a lot to do with the feminist movement, they have the same tactic’s, the leading feminist here is Julia Gillard, owner of Emilie’s list, and has Russian ties, our national security agencies are a joke, they should be telling the world about what human rights abuses going on in the eastern block.

Today there are 30 million men women and children in forced socialist  labor camps, what do you think feminists will do?

Reality is we need to protect our children from all that will do harm, is our only reason for existence, when it comes to that I for one am pro-choice, what ever force or action that takes, we can not count on any government as has been proven time and time again.

The are 30million or more men women and children locked up in socialist Labor camps today. Free the people with free democracy.

Judicial government corruption dishonesty disinformation tyranny, it is a psychological war on families, this is where Australia is going fascist / socialist / feminism, I don’t think we will be able to stop it.


All law and democracy is designed to address dysfunctional ‘Anti-Social’ behaviours and events, to allow social civilised society to flourish to its full potential, the hieratical judicial system is easily corrupted and in its self a dysfunctional failure.

The Australian Child Trafficking Industry is the same, as is in NZ, USA, Canada, Europe, world over.

We are a common people with a common cause a common enemy.

“The Strength of the Constitution Lies in the Will of the People to Defend It.” ~Thomas Edison.

They are using children as bait, ransoming children, when strangers start lying, It takes no leap of imagination to realise you are dealing with corruption, and sociopathy.

Family courts world wide have degenerated into sociopathic antisocial cults and collectives, commonly know as gang stalkers, driven by money and political violence.

Judges like all public servants need to be on annual contract, under constant review.

The real issue we are facing is the dominating prevalence of sociopathic antisocial individuals within society, up to ~1 in 100, in Australia with its current population is some 230,000 psychopath’s, their extremely controlling manipulative and destructive behaviour, the very reason we have judicial and governments systems, that in them selves attract controlling sociopaths like flies …

Bobby Dickerson “Agreed but internally the system is corrupted thru and thru.  Unless everybody gets on the same page, gets past the shock and awe of what has happened, the loss, the grief we will never move forward to finding solutions.  The effort has to be WorldWide with everybody locked and loaded !”

“The greatest trick the devil ever pulled was convincing the world that he didn’t exist.”

We were ambushed by Family Court of Australia Brisbane judiciary gross misconduct, acting illegally deliberately knowingly breaching Australian Commonwealth law , Malfeasance, dysfunctional antisocial and Narcissistic, the Australian Constitution proved misbehaviour or incapacity., this judiciary is dangerous and should not be approached.

121 FLA secret courts only serves the politically violent Child Traffickers.


Tony Abbott, PM Australia: Open jury trials in Australian Family Courts

Legal Aid Queensland acting illegally Malfeasance.

ICL acting illegally Nonfeasance Misfeasance.

This is a dysfunctional criminally corrupt secret industry kept a corrupt secret with 121 FLA, LAQ ICL Child Lawyer and consultant’s purger to obstruct pervert and defeat justice.

CRIMES ACT 1914 – SECT 35 Giving false testimony

CRIMES ACT 1914 – SECT 36 Fabricating evidence

What should be straight forward 50/50 has been dragged through Family Court Australia from August 2010 at huge expense, by Legal Aid Queensland family law team of narcisstic antisocial politically violent duplicitic pseudo feminists, with purgery and deceit.

The kicker is the more conflict the more profit corrupt ICL child lawyers and the industry makes, the industry makes every effort to lie, purger and cheat to fuel conflict.

What is happening is a cycle of evil, antisocial behaviour being administered, starting from sociopathic parenting.

” non accidental verbal or symbolic acts by a child’s parent or caregiver that result, or have reasonable potential to result, in significant psychological harm to the child.” DSM5

“What’s done to children, they will do to society” – Karl Menninger, MD. (1893-1990) American psychiatrist.

Official Crimes against Australian Children, child trafficking.

Child Trafficking in Australia

Family Court Australia Murder incorporated, kiddie for cash law firms, we have your kiddies, what are you going to do about it?

Fascism, Feminism, Socialism, Racism,  etc are absolute Dysfunctional Sociopathic and Sadistic, why are you pushing sociopathy on Australians?

They are sociopathic gender war mongers creating conflict, are sociopathic collectives, which is a degenerate parasitic subspecies, the lowest form of humanity, that invoke all conflict and wars.

We need you to step up, stand up for each other, fight the good fight, your kids need to know you never gave up on them.

50/50 shared care is the civilised standard.

Contact with Non-Custodial Fathers and Children’s Wellbeing

Although it is usually assumed that mothers are children’s primary care givers, fathers also play an important role in children’s development. Besides providing economic resources, fathers are also sources of emotional support, practical assistance, information, guidance, and supervision.
A large body of research shows that the support and involvement of both parents is associated with a number of positive child outcomes, including academic achievement, good behaviour, psychological adjustment, a positive self- concept, and social competence.

Furthermore, when both parents exercise control and supervision appropriate to children’s developmental level, children experience a similar range of benefits (Rollins and Thomas 1979; Maccoby and Martin 1983).

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My young son is missing since November 2012 because I complained to CAFS Queensland children’s detention centre Eagleby about unexplained burses.

I have found the Australian family courts deliberately and intentionally extremely treacherous and corrupt trafficking in children, extinguishing hard won democratic rights and freedoms, fair and just hearings, they are exploiting and abusing my young son as well as many Australian children.

Tyranny is narcissism (DSM-5), and that is the problem we are having globally
with all governments, Tyranny / narcissism built on hierarchal pyramid

True democracy forms a sphere where all members have an equal voice and vote,
the leaders are at the centre but have no more power than the newest member,
only true democracy can be just and deliver justice for all.

Do we trust ALP, do we trust the LNP, and can we trust any party?

NO, ever wonder why there are so many protests and wars?

Purely because of lacking democracy.

How about this, you give us our democracy, our democracy will give us our justice.

There is no real justice without true democracy, the only true democracy is direct democracy.

Party politics and policy is not proper true democracy.
The Australian Democrats
The party is based on the principles of honesty, tolerance, compassion and direct democracy through postal ballots of all members, so that “there should be no hierarchical structure …

by which a carefully engineered elite could make decisions for the members.”[8]:p187 From the outset, members’ participation was fiercely protected in national and
divisional constitutions prescribing internal elections, regular meeting protocols, annual conferences—and monthly journals for open discussion and balloting. Dispute resolution procedures were established, with final recourse to a party ombudsman and membership ballot.

This is democracy at work, is the future.

Fathers have nowhere to turn to, and no knowledge or defence against this treacherous Narcisstic abuse.

Dear ***** [FUA] , I hope that you don’t mind my writing for some advice. on the 29th  – 07 – 2012 we lost our eldest Son  to suicide … he was trying desperately to gain some access for us to see his 3 youngest Children. We’ve not seen them now for  almost 3 years  . is there somewhere my Husband and I can go to … we are pensioners, we  baby sat those  Children  each day of their lives, until their Mother took them away …… I’ve now lost all hope of anything  being able to help us…. Kindest Regards ***** *****

Please investigate the mass deaths linked to the Australian family courts, some 2 or more deaths per day in Australia alone.

Being in the courts now know to well how nasty and corrupt these people in the industry are. I personally know people who have suicided.

“A free people ought not only to be armed, but disciplined; to which end a uniform and well-digested plan is requisite; and their safety and interest require that they should promote such manufactories as tend to render them independent of others for essential, particularly military, supplies.” George Washington (22 February 173214 December 1799 

I ask the LNP to sack the current Attorney-General Jarrod Bleijie for grand standing at the cost of Australian and Queensland children and families, Malfeasance  and complicity the current Attorney-General Jarrod Bleijie is ignoring Juveniles in QLD prisons: 20 years of shame, the corruption in legal aid Queensland, and mass murder.

In war, truth is the first casualty. Death is better, a milder fate than tyranny. Aeschylus

Lest We Forget


The ANZAC’s fought and died for our children’s rights to grow free from treachery and tyranny, we owe the ANZAC’s everything,.

The ANZAC legacy and democratic rights has been extinguished in one generation by judiciary corruption and greed.

Children are not safe in Australia.

Malfeasance and complicity the current Attorney-General Jarrod Bleijie is ignoring the corruption in legal aid Queensland, mass murder, Attorney-General Jarrod Bleijie given LNP the reputation as the nasty party, there is no rule of law or civil rights in the Australian family court or Queensland.

Under Anthony Reilly Chief executive officer Legal Aids Queensland are extremely   corrupt, spending millions of Queensland dollars on employing politicly violent feminist in their family law team abusing children and families producing false family reports, perjury, tampering with evidence, lie and cheat children.

Quote from a un named ADF soldier “…It was as filthy a Family Law Court fight as had ever existed. I made a promise to my son that before this has finished these people will never do this to another child in this Country ever again. I keep my promises. I don’t care if they are murdered by some-one for their behaviour – its not my problem. All because I was an ex Commando. Problem is, I found out the truth, something they didn’t expect. What this Court is all about is exactly the same as the current proposed Laws to stifle and control the media.”


It is at the point where the Australian public needs and have a duty to take up arms to protect their children and democracy.

Where there is a void of ethic’s or morals it is inhuman, only animal, humanity needs to act, when an animal kills it needs to be destroyed.

What is presented as feminism is in fact a Dysfunctional Antisocial Narcisstic Collective. Criminally motivated exploitation of our children, driven by greed for power and money, the same ilk as ‘Emily’s List’ of bigoted feminist, feminism is socialism / communism in a dress.

The family court judiciary is corrupt with no accountability, they know exactly how to break and defeat the law and justice and they enjoy doing it, destroying lives and killing deliberately and knowingly.

They actively avoid truth, building on understanding and, mediation, adopting political violence.

As Darwin predicts they are a variant species collective with no ethics or morals, as many regimes throughout history as is Bashar al-Assad now proving.

Dysfunctional anti-social Narcisstic individuals need to be detected early and rejected before they can collect in numbers and destroy innocent lives.

Humanity is still young naïve, still have not learnt enough from behavioural tragedy children suffering.

Peaceful resolution is not profitable.

Dysfunctional Narcissism seems the modern term for evil it is very where especially ever in bureaucracy, judiciary and government, it is the real enemy of civilized society, peace and harmony.

It is well hidden in the back ground behind many facades socialism, fascism, feminism and so on… And needs to be openly recognised and discussed.

Psychology as the study of human behaviour that needs to be taught early in school, straight from the DSM-5 along with the constitution and law.

Ultimately psychology has so much to offer civilized society.

Julia Gillard’s narcissism was her downfall, we just seen the narcissism at the head of ALP.

Feminists like socialist and fascism is just another façade for age old enemy, Narcissism. Narcissism is and has always been the real enemy











Stop Narcissistic lawyers trafficking our children, Stop Narcissism in governments, Vote against Narcissism, stop Narcissism in our courts, stop Narcissists waging war .

The hidden war a civil war on our children and families, It is a 16 billion dollar industry run by lawyer for lawyers, child trafficking industry.

The most notable thing about the courts Judiciary themselves is the criminality, treachery and corruption.

Have degenerated into Antisocial Narcisstic Collective, criminally motivated antisocial narcissism defeating justice, excluding honest practitioners, corruption, bias, treachery, lies, purger, deceit, with no accountability, not judicial in the least.

Child exploitation is the new 16 billion dollar per year boom industry, with no regard for the kids, the families or the law..

The most notable aspect of socialist regimes is how antisocial and despotic they are, duplicity.

The Australian family court antisocial judiciaries are killing 2 or more good people every day here in Australia alone.

It is an antisocial psyc war on children and families aimed at defeating justice for power and profit, thousands of Australian families are victimised, trapped every year.

50/50 shared care is the civilised standard.

If for no good reason one parent works against 50/50 it could be said they are being dysfunctional, antisocial and should be assessed for antisocial personality disorder.

What we are seeing is justice being defeated by collectives of dysfunctional antisocial narcisstic judiciaries and bureaucracies simply because there is no accountability. By this function good practitioners are ejected.

Ever wonder how these narcisstic antisocial and psychotic people get jobs and position in judiciaries and bureaucries, ever wonder why the world is in perpetual war?

Owen’s theorem Owen’s syndrome Robert Owen (14 May 1771 – 17 November) was a Welsh social reformer and one of the founders of socialism and the cooperative movement. Owen’s son Robert Dale stayed at New Harmony after its collapse. He had a different assessment of his father’s experiment.

“All cooperative schemes which provide equal remuneration to the skilled and industrious and the ignorant and idle must work their own downfall, for by this unjust plan … they must of necessity eliminate the valuable members … and retain only the improvident, unskilled, and vicious.”

fascism feminism terrorism socialism racism communism (see a pattern?) are all dysfunctional antisocial sociopathic projections … DSM5

It is not hard to see how these antisocial, narcisstic judiciaries and bureaucries collectives form.

Democracy is a form of government in which all eligible citizens have an equal say in the decisions that affect their lives.

Publicity is justly commended as a remedy for social and industrial diseases. Sunlight is said to be the best of disinfectants; electric light the most efficient policeman.

Louis Dembitz Brandeis (1856-11-13 – 1941-10-03) was an important American litigator, Supreme Court Justice, advocate of privacy, and developer of the Brandeis Brief

121 FLA secret courts only serves the Child Traffickers.

The courts will never work, never deliver justice, we have to take it on our selves to deliver justice.


The only real solution is public accountabilityxx





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DSM-5 Criteria for the Personality Disorders

General Criteria for a Personality Disorder

The essential features of a personality disorder are impairments in personality (self and interpersonal) functioning and the presence of pathological personality traits. To diagnose a personality disorder, the following criteria must be met

A.Significant impairments in self (identity or self-direction) and interpersonal (empathy or intimacy) functioning.

B.One or more pathological personality trait domains or trait facets.

C.The impairments in personality functioning and the individual’s personality trait expression are relatively stable across time and consistent across situations.

D.The impairments in personality functioning and the individual’s personality trait expression are not better understood as normative for the individual’s developmental stage or socio-cultural environment.

E.The impairments in personality functioning and the individual’s personality trait expression are not solely due to the direct physiological effects of a substance (e.g., a drug of abuse, medication) or a general medical condition (e.g., severe head trauma).

Antisocial Personality Disorder

DSM-5 Criteria – Revised April 2012

The essential features of a personality disorder are impairments in personality (self and interpersonal) functioning and the presence of pathological personality traits. To diagnose antisocial personality disorder, the following criteria must be met:

A.Significant impairments in personality functioning manifest by:

1.Impairments in self functioning (a or b):

A.Identity: Ego-centrism; self-esteem derived from personal gain, power, or pleasure.

B.Self-direction: Goal-setting based on personal gratification; absence of prosocial internal standards associated with failure to conform to lawful or culturally normative ethical behaviour.


2.Impairments in interpersonal functioning (a or b):

a.Empathy: Lack of concern for feelings, needs, or suffering of others; lack of remorse after hurting or mistreating another.

b.Intimacy: Incapacity for mutually intimate relationships, as exploitation is a primary means of relating to others, including by deceit and coercion; use of dominance or intimidation to control others.

B. Pathological personality traits in the following domains:

1. Antagonism, characterized by:

A. Manipulativeness: Frequent use of subterfuge to influence or control others; use of seduction, charm, glibness, or ingratiation to achieve one„s ends.

B. Deceitfulness: Dishonesty and fraudulence; misrepresentation of self; embellishment or fabrication when relating events.

C. Callousness: Lack of concern for feelings or problems of others; lack of guilt or remorse about the negative or harmful effects of one„s actions on others; aggression; sadism.

D. Hostility: Persistent or frequent angry feelings; anger or irritability in response to minor slights and insults; mean, nasty, or vengeful behaviour.

2. Disinhibition, characterized by:

A. Irresponsibility: Disregard for – and failure to honour – financial and other obligations or commitments; lack of respect for – and lack of follow through on – agreements and promises.

B. Impulsivity: Acting on the spur of the moment in response to immediate stimuli; acting on a momentary basis without a plan or consideration of outcomes; difficulty establishing and following plans.

C. Risk taking: Engagement in dangerous, risky, and potentially self-damaging activities, unnecessarily and without regard for consequences; boredom proneness and thoughtless initiation of activities to counter boredom; lack of concern for one„s limitations and denial of the reality of personal danger.

C. The impairments in personality functioning and the individual’s personality trait expression are relatively stable across time and consistent across situations.

D. The impairments in personality functioning and the individual’s personality trait expression are not better understood as normative for the individual’s developmental stage or socio-cultural environment.

E. The impairments in personality functioning and the individual’s. personality trait expression are not solely due to the direct physiological effects of a substance (e.g., a drug of abuse, medication) or a general medical condition (e.g., severe head trauma).

F. The individual is at least age 18 years.

Narcissistic Personality Disorder

DSM-5 Criteria – Revised June 2011

The essential features of a personality disorder are impairments in

personality (self and interpersonal) functioning and the presence of pathological personality traits. To diagnose narcissistic personality disorder, the following criteria must be met:

A. Significant impairments in personality functioning manifest by:

1.Impairments in self functioning (a or b):

a. Identity: Excessive reference to others for self-definition and self-esteem regulation; exaggerated self-appraisal may be inflated or deflated, or vacillate between extremes; emotional regulation mirrors fluctuations in self-esteem.

b. Self-direction: Goal-setting is based on gaining approval from others; personal standards are unreasonably high in order to see oneself as exceptional, or too low based on a sense of entitlement; often unaware of own motivations.


2. Impairments in interpersonal functioning (a or b):

a. Empathy: Impaired ability to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others; excessively attuned to reactions of others, but only if perceived as relevant to self; over- or underestimate of own effect on others.

b. Intimacy: Relationships largely superficial and exist to serve self-esteem regulation; mutuality constrained by little genuine interest in others‟ experiences and predominance of a need for personal gain

B. Pathological personality traits in the following domain:

1. Antagonism, characterized by:

a. Grandiosity: Feelings of entitlement, either overt or covert; self-centeredness; firmly holding to the belief that one is better than others; condescending toward others.

b. Attention seeking: Excessive attempts to attract and be the focus of the attention of others; admiration seeking.

C. The impairments in personality functioning and the individual‟s personality trait expression are relatively stable across time and consistent across situations.

D. The impairments in personality functioning and the individual‟s personality trait expression are not better understood as normative for the individual‟s developmental stage or socio-cultural environment.

E. The impairments in personality functioning and the individual‟s personality trait expression are not solely due to the direct physiological effects of a substance (e.g., a drug of abuse, medication) or a general medical condition (e.g., severe head trauma).




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we are a Union we raise issue with the government and departments

We can’t give you any advice, were not lawyers, I do suggest you learn to use stealth, ‘high quality’ audio and video (12meg) record every meeting and ‘especially any court reporters psyc etc’, and suggest you get talking to these people regards your case asap … Family Law Web Guide


Interfering with political liberty

Any person who, by violence or by threats or intimidation of any kind, hinders or interferes with the free exercise or performance, by any other person, of any political right or duty, shall be guilty of an offence.

Penalty:  Imprisonment for 3 years.

“By the end of today, another 200 children will have been cruelly separated from their fathers in secret family courts.”

          Fatherlessness is an obscenity. No child should be denied their human right to a father yet nearly 1 in 3 children now lives without a father in the UK – that’s nearly 4 million fatherless children.   Help us end the cruel & degrading treatment of families by the government.

Why is there only a parliamentary office for women, and not

children and men?




You are not alone; please don’t hesitate to ask for support

Register here now, sign our petition, send this link on to everyone you know, mates, family, friends …

It is well know and documented Australian Federal Magistrates and Family courts, state and federal departments are over run with bigotry, corruption, completely unabated discrimination and abuse directed against Fathers, negatively impacting on children.

kids need Dad’s.

The bureaucratic abuse of Dad’s is costing not only billions in public funds more over it is destroying the lives of children and Fathers.

Stand up for all Australian Kids, these new laws will only harm kids, help bring back justice and equality to Australia.

Australian Kids need your support more than ever.

Send this to your member of parliament and every other member you can now before it’s too late…

Dad’s and kid’s alike are victims of abuse and policies.

Globally, society is suffering under the weight of abuse of public office.


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Then click ‘register’ on the LEFT side of this page as well and Please Forward to family and friends…


Justin Gonsalez,


chris, 4215 i will do what eva it takes to rid this as my kids are the victims and childsupport i pay goes towards paying her lawyers as even my family are getting threatning letters.the schools they go wont give me imformation on there story goes on as ive been fighting past 7years with no joy..i have commited no crime or violence yet have been painted like that..all along have been told to walk away..yet i ask why should i??i am there father..aleination of children is child abuse yet doesnt get mentioned..why???if i did to the kids what there mother is i wouldnt be here..ide be locked up..i will do what eva it takes to help make changes and give what our kids diserve..and thats support and love that only a father can give..



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Craig Havenaar, 2169 I am in a blended Family , a Dad and step Dad to 9 kids, 2 of them who are teenagers are being forced by the courts to not be with me, initial reasons were because of false allegations I was not fit enough to care for them, what about the other 7 ????????????? if that isnt hypocrisy I dont know what is, and I will bring this up in the media to highlight the situation, it’s no threat, its called democracy !!!

xxxxxxxx, 5000 the destruction of fatherhood is the destruction of the nation .. and this is increasingly obvious to some .. with eyes to see …and hearts to love …

ingrid jusice, 5114 my family and my son have gone through hell in the federal court,8 years of listening to bullshit and lining lawyers pockets,also the judges seem to be sooooo biased towards mothers,yes thats right its an unfair system

Danny Bennett-Hillier, 2154 Great to know that others are pushing for change!

Lisa Macumber, 3136 Its about time the government stood up and did something to protect our men before more of them end up suiciding and our children are left alone, confused and fatherless

John D Mahoney, 2010

John Findlay, 4115 Why am I perceived to be a lesser parent because of my genitals ? Why do I have to fight in court and spend vast amounts of money for the right to spend time with my children ? Why do I have a DVO against me for a TXT message when I was trying to protect my children from a cult ? Why dont I have any say in my childrens lives ? Why isnt this important to everyone when almost 50% of families are failing ? Why are women so nastie and willing to use their own children as a tool of revenge. Why does everyone know that women are abusing the system except the judges that hand down decishions. The whole system has been corrupted by the lure of money into the pockets of moraly bankrupt lawyers and blinkered judges. We all only want fair ! nothing more, nothing less !

Michael Sheehan, 4478

Michelle Wood, 5290 3 years in court for my brother and my family and him have to spend thousands to listen to some of the most ridiculous crap ever to come out of an adults mouth, meanwhile his ex is fully funded by Legal Aid and enjoying every moment!!

martin caporn, 5019 When it is done, less men and fathers will be lost or distressed. They will be productive again.

Max, 4217 My ongoing experience, it is a beat-up from the get go and very much still is. My now 2yo son’s primary attachment is with me because I cared for him from birth he cries when he see the mother, she took him to get welfare and free housing. With all the video and affidavits showing this, the court consultant and the family report writer still claim the attachment is with the mother, she enjoys abusing and neglecting him with the full knowledge and support of legal aids and the courts. They even write her affidavits for her (and got her name wrong in a signed and filed affidavit). My lawyer won’t talk to me, past on documents, file my affidavits making sure I don’t get a hearing at all. The reality is it is fully syndicated corruption, exploiting kids, stripping the father of their money. The courts and legal aid run list of their preferred consultants and lawyers, a genuine honest consultant or lawyer wouldn’t make it on their lists, and it is multibillion dollar industry, report writers are making ,000.00 a week, lawyers 20,000.00 a week, nice at the tax payers guaranteed expense.

Zaida Berrios, I am a woman and I support fathers. I am not a citizen of Australia. This is happening in America also.

xxxxxxxx, 3000 Equal Rights for all? More women in the board rooms? More women in the defence forces. More men should be acknowledged as fathers important in their children’s lives and often making a major contribution to their view and understanding of the world.-We can be engineers, electricians, doctors, dentists to rig workers, but some reason it seems that our ability to look after a child is diminished because we are men?


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Michelle Wilson, 3133 All laws should be equal, and we MUST put the children FIRST…

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xxxxxxxx, 4108 Why is it impossible (without many thousands spent on legal representation), to prove that DVO’s are totally against men, and indirectly against families too (children) even when it is stated in court that the facts of the order were not true or real?

steve, 4227 Parental Alienation is child abuse

richard pettit, 2316

Chris Savage, 4563 The Family and Federal Magistrates Courts are totally corrupt. They are an absolute disgrace and sponsor one of the most serious forms of child abuse – parental alienation.

Ben Bundy, 2540 How is the manipulation of children against their Father not seen as psycological abuse? How is it not picked up and why is it not acted on or ignored by social workers? Why do soicial workers see mothers by default as victims? Time for action by our government and law makers.

Charles, 44193, USA The family court of Australia, as well as that in the USA, are a disgrace and a mockery to true justice. But what the hell do they know about that?

Giuseppe Cutrale, 3500 There is no scientific evidence to support claims that a mother is more important to a child just a mindset and a mindset that needs to change for our children they are not weapons to aid in selfish acts of hate they are children who love there parents equally I have 5 children and 4 of which I have a shared care arrangement but for my youngest Daughter she has not seen myself or her brother or 3 sisters for 9 months easy to get an AVO or DVO in place with no proof how can a father just snap after 10 years of being a great dad I am and always will be the only father my children have I will always put there safety and well being above anything else but I will not stop until my daughter has her rights to see her family as we will also be getting our god given right to see her!

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Howard, UZFss0mkLTjW Males are human beings with rights just as women are. Stop this male hatred and destruction.

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Craig, 2487

james Dickenson,

Dr Greg Canning, 4812 Our children are suffering because of the gender biased and corrupt legal system and unaccountable family and federal magistrates courts. The divorce, family law and abuse industries extract billions of dollars to provide lucrative lifestyles for their practitioners at the expense of fathers and children.

Darren M, 5041 Expose the corrupt Family Court Judiciary. Hang and

fatima, 87300
hello, I have lost my father in Australian way who will help me to find him and either I can not continue my studies just help me as a humanity please

Katrina Hogan, 4164

Hagen Lunau, 2121
The revolution has begun. Time to drag the judges and politicians into the streets and punish them publicly.

Wayne Coles-Janess, 3000
How do we change this with no funds or influence?? Violence against Men and lack of proper procedures are ignored?

I have cared for our daughter since birth, while her mother placed her into “Childcare” the whole 50% of the time our daughter was in her mothers care for 5 years?


He who now talks about the freedom of the press goes backward, and halts our headlong course towards Socialism

Quotes by Vladimir Lenin
When one makes a Revolution, one cannot mark time; one must always go forward — or go back. He who now talks about the freedom of the press goes backward, and halts our headlong course towards Socialism.
Literature must become party literature. Down with unpartisan litterateurs! Down with the superman of literature! Literature must become a part of the general cause of the proletariat.

Restriction on publication of court proceedings
(1) A person who publishes in a newspaper or periodical publication, by radio broadcast or television or by other electronic means, or otherwise disseminates to the public or to a section of the public by any means, any account of any proceedings, or of any part of any proceedings, under this Act that identifies:








These traffickers are utterly ruthless, they just want the cash, once they have the cash the deal is done.
Every Australian Dad needs to join a political party today and lobby for justice







“Destroy the family, you destroy the country.” Vladimir Ilyich Lenin

“Destroy the family, you destroy the country.” Vladimir Ilyich Lenin Who in their right mind would in a constitutional monarchy create a secret star camber court then make our sworn enemies, Marxist feminist chief justice, that has clear intentions breaking honest hard working real people, the back bone of our society.

We have got to target these traffickers and criminals who are managing promoting and selling this human trade, trafficking in human suffering, we are determined to put an end to this vile trade, trade in human life, trade in human death.
We have got to put the blame squarely at the appalling human traffickers, we now need to do everything we can using a comprehensive approach.
These traffickers are utterly ruthless, they just want the cash, once they have the cash the deal is done.
Every Australian Dad needs to join a political party today and lobby for justice.

Royal commision family violence submissions Vic

Royal commision family violence submissions Vic link below


Definition of family violence etc.

(1) For the purposes of this Act, family violence means violent, threatening or other behaviour by a person that coerces or controls a member of the person’s family (the family member ), or causes the family member to be fearful.

(2) Examples of behaviour that may constitute family violence include (but are not limited to):

(a) an assault; or

(b) a sexual assault or other sexually abusive behaviour; or

(c) stalking; or

(d) repeated derogatory taunts; or

(e) intentionally damaging or destroying property; or

(f) intentionally causing death or injury to an animal; or

(g) unreasonably denying the family member the financial autonomy that he or she would otherwise have had; or

(h) unreasonably withholding financial support needed to meet the reasonable living expenses of the family member, or his or her child, at a time when the family member is entirely or predominantly dependent on the person for financial support; or

(i) preventing the family member from making or keeping connections with his or her family, friends or culture; or

(j) unlawfully depriving the family member, or any member of the family member‘s family, of his or her liberty.

(3) For the purposes of this Act, a child is exposed to family violence if the child sees or hears family violence or otherwise experiences the effects of family violence.

(4) Examples of situations that may constitute a child being exposed to family violence include (but are not limited to) the child:

(a) overhearing threats of death or personal injury by a member of the child‘s family towards another member of the child‘s family; or

(b) seeing or hearing an assault of a member of the child‘s family by another member of the child‘s family; or

(c) comforting or providing assistance to a member of the child‘s family who has been assaulted by another member of the child‘s family; or

(d) cleaning up a site after a member of the child‘s family has intentionally damaged property of another member of the child‘s family; or

(e) being present when police or ambulance officers attend an incident involving the assault of a member of the child‘s family by another member of the child‘s family.

Children the forgotten victims in family violence campaign

Gender split.

Children are being overlooked in the campaign against family violence, despite new statistics showing they represent one in five victims of family-related homicide, senior researchers say.

Figures released this month by the Australian Institute of Crim­in­ology have revealed the complex nature of killings within Australian families over the past decade.

Of the 1088 cases where people were killed by family members, 56 per cent of victims died at the hands of their partner, with women representing three-­quarters of those victims.

Children represented 21 per cent of all victims, with mothers slightly more likely to be the killer than fathers.

More than 80 per cent of children killed by their parents were under nine years old, with 32 per cent less than one year old.

AIC research manager for violent crime and exploitation Samantha Bricknell said the impact of family violence on children warranted greater attention in the public debate, which is predominantly focused on men attacking women.

“I think children are still being lost in the broader discussion,” Dr Bricknell said. “The effects on the child witnessing the violence — but also the impact on the child physically and emotionally being the victim of family violence — is in the conversation, but we’re not really looking at this as much as we should.”

The AIC is currently gathering more detail on child homicides in Australia, including what role parental mental health and custodial arrangements might play in children’s deaths.

The lack of substantial data and issues of underreporting have hindered efforts for a clear picture of family violence, with the Victorian government now planning to rely on measures such as hospital presentations and crime statistics to introduce a family violence index by February.

Dr Bricknell said cases of violence against women unrelated to family or relationship dynamics were sometimes brought into the conversation to bolster ­impressions of a domestic violence “epidemic”.

“It is very difficult to say what is happening now and say it is an epidemic when we don’t know what was happening five years ago,” she said. “I suspect this has been a huge issue for many, many years, for time immemorial probably, but we have to be very careful talking about spikes in violent activity.

“We really don’t know what the situation was beforehand.”

The average number of family-related homicides has dropped since the 1990s — from an average of 129 deaths each year between 1989 and 2002 to an average 101 deaths each year between 2002 and 2012.

University of South Australia adjunct associate professor Dale Bagshaw said that too much ­emphasis was being placed on deaths and physical violence in the current campaigning, and other types of abuse and the role of ­children as victims was being overlooked.

“Children as victims of violence are often ignored,” she said.

“The effect of violence on children is quite devastating, both in the short and long term.”

If you or someone you know is impacted by domestic or family violence or sexual assault, call 1800 RESPECT on 1800 737 732 or visit

Man shaming and victim blaming: an A-Z of male suicide

Karen Woodall

I caught the end of the Panorama Programme on male suicide in the UK last night. Whilst I know something about the statistics around male suicide and understand some of those things which stack up against men, causing loss of hope and a spiral into despair, even I was shocked that 100 men are killing themselves every week in the UK.

100 men every week. It is the leading cause of death for men under the age of 50. It is happening in our country right now and yet, apart from the exhortation to ‘talk about it’, we have, as yet, no national strategy, no national awareness of what is happening and no real idea of what to do about it other than telling men they need to talk about it.

So it’s all their fault then and if only men would be more like women and talk about it, all would be well. Is that our strategy? Make men more like women and all will be well? According to Calmzone’s CEO Jane Powell it is. Powell, who ended the programme last night by saying

the answer is in…simply talking about that sense, the answer is free.

and then went on to talk about how there had been a massive cultural change for women over the years with the implication that if men would only get on and talk about it, the rates of suicide amongst men would drop and it wouldn’t cost a penny.

Was I the only one whose jaw dropped to the floor on hearing this? My first reaction was laughter at the nonsensical idea that all men have to do is talk about their feelings and they won’t feel like killing themselves anymore. My second reaction was serious concern which grew into anger at the realisation that the sole idea that was being put foward in this documentary was a feminist construct that if men were more like women and talked about their feelings, their despair would not drive them to death. So let’s look at what talking about it does for the men who are most at risk of suicide in the UK.

Men under fifty whose lives are fragile and based upon the whims of the woman they live with and her approval of him being a good enough husband or partner.

If he fails to live up to this and his wife or partner decides that the marriage is over, what happens to our man under the age of fifty?

a) his behaviours are routinely analysed as being based upon his inherent advantage under the rule of patriarchy. He is judged wanting because he is a man because men are advantaged and women are not.

b) he is asked to leave the house he lives in.

c) leaving his children behind


d) he comes home one night to an empty house, his wife and his children are gone

e) he is regarded as a perpetrator, it must be his fault because he is a man

f) he faces systemic discrimination in the services he turns to for help, including even those services set up to support him it would seem, as their core belief is that if he just talks about it he will feel less like killing himself. Meanwhile he is homeless, forcibly separated from his children and

g) forced to pay 20% of his gross income to support the children he can only see if their mother is willing to allow that

h) when he enters the housing system he is told he has no priority and so he spends much of his time sofa surfing in his friends homes or lives with his mother and father, alternatively he goes onto the streets and becomes one of the invisibles, the ones we don’t care about because if they are on the street it must be their fault mustn’t it?

i) When he tries to see his children, using the family court system he pays for it financially, emotionally, psychologically and physically.

j) He applies to see his children using a C100 form and is asked to attend mediation which he does. His children’s mother however refuses because she has reconfigured their relationship through her ‘consciousness raising’ as being abusive…he is doomed but he doesn’t know it yet.

k) He goes into court and secures that which is afforded to him now that he is regarded as deficient as a father, contact. Contact with his children, those kids who he held in his arms on the day of their birth and promised them the world. He is now allowed to have ‘contact’ with them.

l) ‘Contact’ is stopped when allegations are made and the criminal court takes a year or more to conclude that he is not guilty.

m) now his kids don’t want to see him anymore, he is too sad, too bad, too not what a dad should be.

n) He goes in to the court system believing he will get justice and comes out shredded, bullied, coerced and shamed.

0) He suffers from PTSD

p) his working life has suffered for a very long time, now he faces losing his job.

q) losing his job is the final straw, now he is homeless, childless, jobless and worthless.

r) he asks for help from one of the local services who tell him that all he needs to do is talk about it.

s) he staggers out into the street and wonders why he doesn’t just throw himself under that bus, who would care?

t) he drifts listlessly from one day to the next, his friends have given up on him, or been turned against him by his ex

u) his mother is seriously concerned about him but cannot get through to him

v) he starts planning how to end the pain

w) he wakes up one morning after a night drinking to kill the pain of the loss that he has suffered and the post traumatic stress that causes his brain to spin around the same questions over and over again…what did I do that was so wrong?

x) he cannot cope with it anymore, he has talked it and walked it for too long.

y) he knows his mother is not in the house today

z) he takes the rope from the garage

If only he had talked about it….

Telling men who face external barriers and obstacles to those things that keep them mentally well and healthy to talk about it is like shouting into a force 10 gale and thinking the person over the other side of the hill can hear you. The sickening thing about telling men who face these levels of discrimination to ‘talk about it,’ is that it is like sticking a plaster over open heart surgery in the belief that it will heal itself eventually. What we are doing to men is wrong, it is not healthy and it is very definitely not about equality.

For those who believe that when I write about men that makes me a men’s rights activist and those who believe that because I have abandoned feminism for what it is, a discriminatory cult which is about women’s rights and not equality, I am biased against women. Let me tell you that I am not an activist for anything other than equality, that which is based upon enabling men and women to be who they are and different, not the same. What I also am is someone who believes that if we are to be a truly equal, just and fair society, in which our boys and girls can grow up to have choices across the whole spectrum of their lives, we have to undersand that victim blaming is not just for women, it is for men too. And victim blaming is something which starts when we see the struggles of men and women as being of their own doing. This is exactly what is happening when we tell men who face systemic barriers to their wellbeing that they will feel better if they simply ‘talk about it.’

What happens when men do talk about it is that we collectively start a process of man shaming. When men clmb on buildings to highlight their plight they are irresponsible wasters who clearly should not have anything to do with their children, when they march for their rights, we say they are bullies and are showing their true colours and when they kill themselves we say that if only they talked about it, all would be well. Man shaming. It is rife in our culture. It is wrong and it is killing men at the rate of 100 per week in the UK.

Instead of telling men to talk about it, isn’t it time that those of us who want a fairer, safer, more just world for our children, got on and did something about it?

And I don’t mean talk about it.

Family Court Final Four Tournament Results


Not since the Big East Conference boasted three of the final four teams in NCAA Tournament play did we see such a lopsided outcome. It occurred over the weekend not far from all the sports arenas and domes in a competition we can call the Family Court Final Four. While visitation dads were obsessed with the orange ball, feministswere busy getting more laws passed to criminalize them as parents.

Here at Leon we try to keep up with all the developments that get by our fathers while they’re watching the games. We try to organize opposition to laws that are effectively criminalizing fatherhood and removing good dads from their children’s lives. But the guys seem to prefer spending on game tickets and other priorities than donations or participation in family law reform.

That’s why family judges today see no problem with debtor prisons and gender discrimination in parenting decisions. Fathers and their women supporters do not send them any public message that there’s a growing crisis here, so it’s simply not a problem. Oppressive laws continue to be passed which send good fathers to lower class status, bankruptcy and jail. Horrendous psychological damage to children is utterly disregarded along the way for the almighty dollar.

To cite only one example, a federal law known as the Parent Punishment Act (you can look it up, it really exists) makes it a crime to take up residency in another state with a $5,000 support debt. Now how many dads know that they can be arrested by getting behind on a debt so easily achieved after losing a job (or failing to get one that a well paid judge thinks he can get)? Move a few miles across a state line for a new job and go to federal prison? Rapists and child molesters get more respect, i.e.Attorney Steven Lever.

Despite crucial rights violated under our Constitution in this way, the war on fatherspresses on, right over the foxholes where guys focus only on their own war stories. There is no sacrifice for a greater cause and so there is no relief in sight. Politicians regurgitate that same old song and dance about how these measures are designed to benefit our children when they know of the real damage.

This is because a go-along mentality gets votes. Remarkably an uniformed public then applauds the erosion of our rights just as Adolph Hitler once predicted in Nazi Germany. Just say it’s for our children, and the people will “happily accept any curtailment of their liberties.” It’s all there in Mein Kampf, and it’s been happening here in the states for many years.

The real crimes lie in a widespread suppression of speech and reform which then facilitates the ongoing discrimination, abuse and injustices. While this fatherless crisis grows, politicians simply demand more tax dollars to pay for the social costs. It’s called job creation after all our real jobs went overseas to avoid other forms of over-regulation. In short, government is spending our money to create a problem and then making us pay for it on the back side.

Our Constitution is the supreme embodiment of law that our soldiers sacrifice everything for each day only to return home to these same prisons and oppressive laws. In our next post, we’ll tell you about a quiet scheme which gets even more child support in the hands of lawyers and how desperate victims have now resorted to murder, suicide and lawlessness as a preferred remedy to such injustices. In the meantime, enjoy the games.

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children whose fathers spent more time with them had a higher IQ

Strong fatherly involvement in their early life can also improve a child’s future career prospects, the research shows.

Academics at the University of Newcastle, who carried out the study, also found that men tended to pay more attention to their sons than their daughters.

The researchers warned that it was not enough for parents to live together, but that a father should be actively involved in a child’s life to benefit their development.

The study looked at more than 11,000 British men and women, born in 1958.

The scientists asked their mothers how often the father of their child took part in activities with them, including reading, organising outings and general “quality time”.

The findings, published in the journal Evolution and Human Behaviour, show that those children whose fathers spent more time with them had a higher IQ and were more socially mobile than those who had received little attention.

The differences were still detectable by the age of 42.

Dr Daniel Nettle, who led the research, said: “What was surprising about this research was the real sizeable difference in the progress of children who benefited from paternal interest and how thirty years later, people whose dads were involved are more upwardly mobile.

“The data suggest that having a second adult involved during childhood produces benefits in terms of skills and abilities that endure throughout adult life,” he added.

Jon Davies, chief executive for Families Need Fathers, said: “We hope that research like this will lead to the government to reconsider how poorly served separated families often are and how a child needs a father as well as mother.”


OPINION: Men are victims of domestic violence too | Newcastle Herald


LAST month a NSW Police Facebook post talked about male victims of family violence and the fact that last year one in five domestic violence assaults that NSW police attended to involved male victims.

This is not news for many of us who have worked for many years to advocate for rights for male domestic violence victims and for services to be provided for them and also female perpetrators

Both of these groups – male victims and female perpetrators – are “invisible” in the eyes of the domestic violence field in this country.

Male victims need to be encouraged to come forward, and they need as much support as female and child victims of family violence, and the NSW Police Facebook post  we hope will help to facilitate this.

The fact that women are victims of domestic violence in 66per cent of the cases needs to be addressed and is being addressed, but what about the other 33per cent?

There has been no community education censuring violence by women or raising awareness of the needs of male domestic violence victims.

I run the only training program for health and community workers in how to respond to the needs of male victims in Australia and New Zealand.

There are hundreds of training courses in Australia around domestic violence but none of them deal with the two “invisible” groups, they simply help to perpetrate the myth that domestic violence is something that only happens to women at the hands of men.

Domestic violence can be thought of as an equal opportunity killer.

Recent tragedies in Brisbane and Cairns involving women killing their children show that women are just as capable of homicide as men when children are involved.

The latest statistics from the Australian Institute of Criminology show that between 2008 and 2010, in family-related murders of children by all family members, more than 37per cent of the known killers were the mother.  (The source is raw data from the AIC’s National Homicide Monitoring Program at

It is indeed sad that while our community awareness of the dangers of domestic violence is growing, the information is not being presented fairly and the truth about who might actually commit violence and abuse in relationships is not being accurately portrayed.

Dr Elizabeth Celi, a psychologist and author on men’s health, has some interesting insights.

She says public awareness of domestic violence often falls short of portraying the whole story.

‘‘Decades of rightly raising public awareness for female victims of domestic violence, have simultaneously lacked in accurate public education that women can also be abusive and violent, towards other women, men and children,’’ she says.

She also points out that turning a blind eye to women who commit domestic violence puts children at risk.

‘‘Children are affected by abusive and violent behaviour regardless of the perpetrator’s gender. Our children don’t deserve to be put at risk by overlooking women’s abuse and violence.’’

It is time that we called for a stop to all domestic violence, irrespective of who commits it and who is the victim.

In the real war to stop all violence in relationships, there is no place for gender battles; we need to move on from this and work towards making all men, women and children safe.

Greg Millan is a men’s health consultant. He will run a training program for health workers ‘‘Working with men affected by violence” in Newcastle on February 20. 


Domestic Violence Against Men: Women More Likely To Be ‘Intimate Terrorists’ With Controlling Behavior In Relationships

Upset woman about to slap her partner the living room

Relationships can be an emotional rollercoaster. Throughout the ride, men and women can be everything from loving and nurturing, to sometimes verbally and even physically abusive during fights. While aggression in heterosexual relationships is believed to stem from men, a recent study presented on June 25 at a symposium on intimate partner violence (IPV) at the British Psychological Society’s Division of Forensic Psychology annual conference in Glasgow, found women are more likely to be “intimate terrorists,” or physically aggressive to their partners than men.

Michael P. Johnson, an American sociologist coined the term “intimate terrorism,” or batterers or abusers, in the 1990s to define an extreme form of controlling relationship behavior involving threats, intimidation, and violence. Men were almost always responsible for these heinous acts. This belief is further supported by statistics highlighting nearly three in 10 women (29 percent), and one in 10 men (10 percent) in the U.S. have experienced rape, physical violence, and/or stalking by a partner, affecting some form of their functioning, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

To observe the dynamic and prevalence of intimate partner violence of men and women in heterosexual relationships, Dr. Elizabeth Bates from the University of Cumbria and colleagues from the University of Central Lancashire, conducted a survey collecting data from a large cohort of students. More than 1,000 students — 706 women and 398 men with an average age of 24 — responded to the questionnaires. The students were asked about their physical aggression and controlling behavior to partners, and to same-sex others, including friends.

The findings revealed just as many women as men could also be classed as abusive, coupled with controlling behavior with serious levels of threats, intimidation, and physical violence. Women were more likely to verbally and physically aggressive to their partners than men. “This study found that women demonstrated a desire to control their partners and were more likely to use physical aggression than men. “It wasn’t just pushing and shoving,” said Bates,Medical Xpress reported. Some of the survey respondents circled boxes for things like beating up, kicking, and even threatening to use a weapon.

However, when it came to terms of high levels of control and aggression, there was no difference between men and women. There was a higher prevalence of controlling behavior seen in women than men, which was found to significantly predict physical aggression in both sexes. In other words, the more controlling behavior a woman displayed, the more likely she would an “intimate terrorist,” or physically aggressive to her partner.

“This was an interesting finding. Previous studies have sought to explain male violence towards women as rising from patriarchal values, which motivate men to seek to control women’s behavior, using violence if necessary,” Bates said. This suggests IPV may not be motivated by patriarchal values, and should be further studied with other forms of aggression. The stereotypical popular view, although still dominant, is being challenged by research over the last ten to 15 years, shedding light on male domestic violence.

Mark Brooks, chair of the ManKind Initiative in the U.K., which offers support for male victims of domestic violence, believes Bates’ study is “game changing.” “At the charity we’re not surprised at the findings, because of the type of calls we get to our helpline every day,” Brooks told The Telegraph. “What concerns us still is the lack of awareness and services available to support those men suffering in this way.”

It is no surprise that the media and government in the U.S. and throughout other parts of the world, people focus most attention on the female victims of domestic violence and, consequently, men are the overlooked victims of domestic violence. According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, men and boys are less likely to report the violence and seek services due to several challenges such as the stigma of being a male victim. Sixteen percent of adult men who report being raped or physically assaulted are victims of a current or former spouse, cohabitating partner, boyfriend/girlfriend, or date.

Source: Bates E et al. Women more likely to be aggressive than men in relationships. British Psychological Society’s Division of Forensic Psychology annual conference in Glasgow.